
When I was in New York I knew I had to leave it as the cost of living there is way too high. After having decided to visit Sam in Clayton I had to think about my next move. It had been the first time when I didn't have a clear direction where to go. My contract with MovingWorlds was finished and I didn't have anything new in the pipeline, so the world was my oyster!
I decided why not go to Wilmington. I have always wanted to do that and recently I was even reminded that 15 years ago I did tell somebody special that I would go there one day. 15 years ago I was still in high-school and I would never have believed had somebody told me that I would get there a decade and a half later.
Until about 2014-2015 Wilmington was a thriving movie hub where magicians produced shows like Dawson's Creek, One Tree Hill, and Seepy Hollow; and movies like Iron Man 3, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, and over 300 movies. All of them were filmed in the EUE/Screen Gems studios and on the streets of Wilmington. I started watching One Tree Hill thanks to Natalia and Marzena who introduced it to me sometime in 2004. {"type" : "www", "url" : "https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilmington,_North_Carolina", "date" : "19 November 2018", "author" : "Wikipedia", "title" : "Wilmington, North Carolina"}
We all know that what's on television is just fiction, same as books, comics, and everything else that people make to entertain us in different way. To me, especially after having been watching classic movies for overy two years now, it's a little bit different. I don't see a distinction between fiction/real. Who says what's real? I see the stories that people wrote and those stories come from their experiences mixed with other people's stories creating a unique landscape of human emotions. Add to it the desire to give people ability to relate and connect, and perhaps a glimpse of how to make decisions in this crazy world, and you don't just have a movie or a show. You have a means to convey messages that not everybody gets from their friends, books, parents, or school.

I started searching for places to stay and found a room downtown on AirBnb. I asked for 2-3 days to make sure my travelling plans align with the dates I chose and just when I was ready too book it somebody snatched it from me and booked it for over two months. Giving up wasn't an option so I started looking on Craigslist and Facebook. That's what I did when I was about to come to Peru an it turned out perfectly, so I signed up for Wilmington Facebook group and posted an ad.
Couple of people responded but I started talking only to one, Lynn, who after twoo weeks of vetting process, agreed to rent a room to me. One of the many things I have learnt so far thanks to travelling is that even when there are no plans or an obstacle happens to appear, the universe has a way of correcting it. It has been 50 days since I arrive and I am so glad that everything worked out the way it did!
And then Florence came.. The strongest hurricane in recent decades. At one point Florence was bumped to Category 4 and we had to evacuate. I have gone back to Clayton for few weeks and Lynn with her friend went to Greensboro. Imagine my surprise - what are the chances that just when I decide to visit a certain city there's a huge hurricane coming that could wipe it out? Yes I wanted to do the math but realised it would be way out of my league. Thankfully when I was in Clayton I watched the hurricane unveil and decrease its category to 1. I've never been anywhere near a hurricane and at first I wanted to stay in Wilmington but at that time it was going to be a disaster and Lynn didn't want to risk me getting crushed by a tree :)

Few weeks later I arrived back to Wilmington and started exploring the city. Of course the filming locations were the top of my list and I have already visisted few of them. One of the most beautiful things are all the messages people leave in those places. Yes in most cases when you just sign your name on a bench or wall it's just a vandalism. Is it the same here? I don't think so. However subjective it is, to me the line is apparent: in these places people want to feel connected to the feelings that this place made them feel.
Some of those messages might seem overexaggerated like "Thank you for giving me life" but you just have to realise how much change people on the screen can bring into your own life.

Despite of the everlasting joy of moving from place to place one of my core needs is work. Anybody who knows me can agree that I am a workaholic, though probably not as big as I used to be. My work with MovingWorlds had finished and unfortunately could not be extended so I have been on the lookout for new opportunities. I found one, great company but after three interviews and technical exam I was told I wanted too much money even though I had told them I didn't know what I want. Talk about irony since I would be willing to work for far less than others for the right job - I learnt the importance of feeling good at a workplace over the salary since I left UK...
Week after week had passed and I grew to like Wilmington. One day I decided to visit USS North Carolina (BB-55), a battleship that took part in Battle of Solomons in August 1942, cruised over 300 000 miles, and took part in nine shore bombardments. {"type" : "www", "url" : "https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/USS_North_Carolina_(BB-55)", "date" : "25 November 2018", "author": "Wikipedia", "title" : "USS North Carolina (BB-55)"}



Therefore my trip to Mexico is postponed. For now I will finish 2018 in Tree Hill, welcome New Year even though calendar year doesn't have so much significance to me anymore. More often than not time becomes more linear rather than cyclical. Seasons are whatever I choose. Do I want spring - let's go to Medellín! Summer? Perhaps Honduras Winter? Canada it is. I think such choice gives me freedom I've always wanted. The only fear is that I think it will be difficult, if not close to impossible, to give up such freedom...